"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Getting out of the dreaded friend zone

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Ok, I've got a little experiment I want to set up and I figured you all could put a little input in for everyone to use that has been in this situation and wanted to get out, but didn't know how.

I liked this girl a few months ago. Quite attractive. Kinda long distance (20 miles). But she believes in long distance relationships so that's not a big problem. Since it's a fact that I'm in her "friend zone" I want to see what it takes to successfully get myself out. That's why I'm doing this test.

I've started talking to her a lot more, and Sunday we're going to the beach. It's a start, but I want everyone else's input on what to do and together, maybe we can help out others. I just thought this little experiment was a cool idea.

Tell me what you think and where I should take it from here.

Thanks. :cool:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't think talking to her a lot more is gonna do the trick...be careful with that.

Kino your @ss off....escalate, escalate, escalate.
 
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ARrocket said:
I don't think talking to her a lot more is gonna do the trick...be careful with that.

Kino your @ss off....escalate, escalate, escalate.
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That's what I plan on doing. Good thing is, she actually gives me something to work with, when I flirt, she flirts back kinda thing.

But remember, this is still just a friend, so I want to do this successfully, and remain friends or more. I don't want it crashing and failing. haha. ;)
 
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Yeah man, I'm in a similar situation with one of the chicks I know

And yes I agree, the easiest way for us to get out of this situation is to as ARocket so eloquently put it:

"Kino your @ss off....escalate, escalate, escalate."
(I'm laughing but it totally true!) :yes:
 
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