"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Getting out of a LTR

bootlegger

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This has been a 3 year LTR.

I just can't live with someone so jealous, and so negative any longer.

She has done so very much for me, if not for her I would be dead, and/or in jail several times over. But I just can't do it anymore.


I feel ready to go through with this. My only problem, is the apartment is in her name. So I'm going to have to be the one to pack up and leave.


Here in lies the problem. I have horrific credit. I can't get an apartment on my own. (I have no family to help with this either). I don't know if I can find another place to live, b/c as long as they run a credit check, I'm screwed. I've been asking around, but every one seems to have their parents co-sign for them.

Does anyone know what my options are? or know who I could ask?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dukester

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how did your life get screwed up that bad, that you relied on her to bail you out of everything. wtf did you do to screw ya credit up that bad too?

you druggie dude? steal cars? what????
 

b's nuts

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not everywhere requires a credit check. look around. you can find places to live that don't require credit check/include utilities etc. Usually they are privately owned, not owned by a management company, but apply for multiple places, and youll be sure to get one of them. It would be wise to have another place lined up, deposit paid, everything completely setup before you cutt ties.
 

Dukester

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Originally posted by b's nuts
not everywhere requires a credit check. look around. you can find places to live that don't require credit check/include utilities etc. Usually they are privately owned, not owned by a management company, but apply for multiple places, and youll be sure to get one of them. It would be wise to have another place lined up, deposit paid, everything completely setup before you cutt ties.
i am a landlord/manager, whatever u wanna call it, and i require all my tenants to have credit checks b4 they move in. i dont want some fvck up living in my house and then not being able to pay for it. but then i can take them to court 4 it- but then it's too much work.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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