"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Getting out of a commited relationship??

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hck332

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OK, we're in a commited relationship, but I'm kinda not too happy with it.
Is there a way to get back to "dating" phase and stop being exclusive to each other?

Is there a nice and polite way for me to convince her to accept that kind of relationship, after being commited for about a month or two?

Thanks!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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For one thing, you cannot go backwards in time. Also, if she's in this relationship with marriage or long term committment in mind, she'll drop your ass and find another guy who is willing to fulfill that need.

You're most likely going to have a breakup on your hands. However, her IL in you may go up if you're pulling back.
Saying something stupid like "I'm not really sure I'm ready for this relationship thing" may or may not get you the results you want. It's a hard call.
 
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Well we told we love each other, and decided to become exclusive.

We don't date/fvck other people (at least I don't, that's for sure).

I'll never break my word, even though I now realise that I decided to become exclusive with her too soon.
 
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Hi Desdinova!

I really love to hear your opinion!

She's too old for me, we both decided to stay together until I find someone else :rolleyes: or she finds someone older for a marriage :rolleyes:

I know this sounds stupid. Our relatioship doesn't seem to be that serious...

But I gave my word I wont **** anyone else!!! What can I do?

I'm thinking to pull back a little to get her IL higher, and then when it's on it's peak tell her something like "I can't be with you only", but in that way that she doesn't get hurt and decide to stay with me. (I don't want to break up because I can learn much from her).

I hope some expirinced DJs have some kind of solution?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I must admit i posted on how to break up with girls easy. I got no real responses. I think its something that you cant avoid. Just say you feel you jumped into a LTR too fast before thinking about it.

I still think its going to be very hard without breaking up.
 
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