“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Getting out of a commited relationship??

hck332

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OK, we're in a commited relationship, but I'm kinda not too happy with it.
Is there a way to get back to "dating" phase and stop being exclusive to each other?

Is there a nice and polite way for me to convince her to accept that kind of relationship, after being commited for about a month or two?

Thanks!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Desdinova

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For one thing, you cannot go backwards in time. Also, if she's in this relationship with marriage or long term committment in mind, she'll drop your ass and find another guy who is willing to fulfill that need.

You're most likely going to have a breakup on your hands. However, her IL in you may go up if you're pulling back.
Saying something stupid like "I'm not really sure I'm ready for this relationship thing" may or may not get you the results you want. It's a hard call.
 

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Well we told we love each other, and decided to become exclusive.

We don't date/fvck other people (at least I don't, that's for sure).

I'll never break my word, even though I now realise that I decided to become exclusive with her too soon.
 

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Hi Desdinova!

I really love to hear your opinion!

She's too old for me, we both decided to stay together until I find someone else :rolleyes: or she finds someone older for a marriage :rolleyes:

I know this sounds stupid. Our relatioship doesn't seem to be that serious...

But I gave my word I wont **** anyone else!!! What can I do?

I'm thinking to pull back a little to get her IL higher, and then when it's on it's peak tell her something like "I can't be with you only", but in that way that she doesn't get hurt and decide to stay with me. (I don't want to break up because I can learn much from her).

I hope some expirinced DJs have some kind of solution?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tomatoes

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I must admit i posted on how to break up with girls easy. I got no real responses. I think its something that you cant avoid. Just say you feel you jumped into a LTR too fast before thinking about it.

I still think its going to be very hard without breaking up.
 
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