"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Getting older women to look past the age gap?

Piper

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Well to start, I'm 24, and have had some great looking women who are a between 5 and 10 years older, throw themselves at me until they ask me how old I am. Then then unwrap their arms from around me and say "Is that it?". What's a good thing to say to them when they back down? At that point I'm at a loss for words, and usually just sit their thinking "daaaaamn". And what if they say "Well do you know how old I am?"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PRMoon

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I let older girls know how old I am all the time. Usually they're okay with it but if they get that "you're a young'n" and they were into you before then you can usually just say "what about it?" or something to make it seem like its no big deal.

If you're forward about it and make it seem normal for you and seem comfortable with the situation they'll usually forget all about your age or in some cases start thinking about what they can do with/to you. At least that's how it works for me, your situation may not be as easy to solve as that...who knows, i'd give it a try. The bulk of it is the image you put across them and if you can remain unshaken then there's a chance they won't get bent out of shape.

Keep your cool.
 

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I stick with teasing older girls about their age, calling them anything from "grandma" to "senile"... keep things light, don't let it get too serious and you should be fine.
 

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senile... Nice, I gotta try that one.
 
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