"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Getting older women to look past the age gap?

Piper

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Well to start, I'm 24, and have had some great looking women who are a between 5 and 10 years older, throw themselves at me until they ask me how old I am. Then then unwrap their arms from around me and say "Is that it?". What's a good thing to say to them when they back down? At that point I'm at a loss for words, and usually just sit their thinking "daaaaamn". And what if they say "Well do you know how old I am?"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PRMoon

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I let older girls know how old I am all the time. Usually they're okay with it but if they get that "you're a young'n" and they were into you before then you can usually just say "what about it?" or something to make it seem like its no big deal.

If you're forward about it and make it seem normal for you and seem comfortable with the situation they'll usually forget all about your age or in some cases start thinking about what they can do with/to you. At least that's how it works for me, your situation may not be as easy to solve as that...who knows, i'd give it a try. The bulk of it is the image you put across them and if you can remain unshaken then there's a chance they won't get bent out of shape.

Keep your cool.
 

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I stick with teasing older girls about their age, calling them anything from "grandma" to "senile"... keep things light, don't let it get too serious and you should be fine.
 

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senile... Nice, I gotta try that one.
 
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