"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Getting off the phone, pisses her off.

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This chick that I called earlier didn't answer, but she ends up returning my call and I'm already trying to go to sleep but she's all talking to me on the phone. When I tell her "I'm gonna go to sleep" she gets all fkn pissed off like "FINE! GO TO FVCKIN SLEEP THEN" and then it's like I have to stay on the phone. I wanted to just tell her so bad "Look, I'll call you tomorrow. I'm going to sleep, Goodnight, Bye." But she just wouldn't allow me. She would be pissed off whenever I try to get off the phone. But then it ended up with me just staying on the damn phone until I guess she fell asleep, well, the phone Hung Up. So I'm finally happy. But seriously, How the hell is the best way to get off the phone with a chick to where she's not so damn upset? Unless...Making her upset would make her want me even more. Next time do I just not give a fvk what happens even if it makes me look bad?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Always leave her wanting more. By constanting failing her sh!t tests, you are just boring her and losing her interest for you.
 
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Can I ask why you care about keeping a women happy? I mean I would think doing something your body needs would take more priority then some little sluzzy but then again that's just me, next time just tell her your tired and she called you to late and you'll call her some other time good luck.
 
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j0n024 said:
Can I ask why you care about keeping a women happy? I mean I would think doing something your body needs would take more priority then some little sluzzy but then again that's just me, next time just tell her your tired and she called you to late and you'll call her some other time good luck.
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Reason being is because I don't want to piss this chick off when I'm fvcking her for free. If I tell her "Fck I'm sleeping! Call you tomorrow..." or Hang up on her. Then I can kiss me fvcking her goodbye. I shouldn't even count on if she'll even answer my call when I call her the next day.
 
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montybrown said:
Reason being is because I don't want to piss this chick off when I'm fvcking her for free. If I tell her "Fck I'm sleeping! Call you tomorrow..." or Hang up on her. Then I can kiss me fvcking her goodbye. I shouldn't even count on if she'll even answer my call when I call her the next day.
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That's where you're wrong. If you show you have a back bone you might be getting laid more often.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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she sounds immature and self absorbed.
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Very much so.

Having said that, if you just want to bang her then grand. But you shouldn't need to bend over backwards to accomodate her. It's like buying sex by lavishing her with attention. Deny her attention and have her crawling back to you is a much preferable situation.

As to how to hang up, it's best to be ****y and midly arrogant to put her in your place without looking like your annoyed at her, or even that you care if she throws a tantrum or not.

How about: "Anyway, I better recharge the batteries so I can fvck you senseless tomorrow. Night babe!" and hang up before she has a chance to protest. If she calls back, ignore the call. Don't call her the next day because that gives her a chance to show her disapproval by not picking up. So instead just ignore her and wait until she gets so horny she calls you.

The basic idea is that you have to do what you want, in an assertive and ****y manner, and make it obvious (by your actions) that you don't care if she gets pissy about it or not.
 
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montybrown said:
Reason being is because I don't want to piss this chick off when I'm fvcking her for free. If I tell her "Fck I'm sleeping! Call you tomorrow..." or Hang up on her. Then I can kiss me fvcking her goodbye. I shouldn't even count on if she'll even answer my call when I call her the next day.
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cmon man .. the reason she's being like this is cuz ur looking too needy . U gotta act like u dont care what she thinks or what she's gonna do .. " Double Your Dating " from David DeAngelo helped me a lot of showing girls that im the boss , i am the one that they gotta try to make me happy . Think about this.
 
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Hey montybrown, the reason she's like that is because of the frame.. She knows she can act out and get compliance.. If you set the right frame from the start, this would have never happened.

So with next chic do it right.

With this one, get caller ID, answer when you want to. Also, reframe your phone relationship with her to only setting up dates and meets.


Pleasing your woman and making her happy should only be reserved for bed. Your d!ck is a gift. She can have as many men friends she uses for talking as she wants.



Daddy is right. Absolutely no fear of screwing it up. No bending you to fit her style, because real players don't do that.
 
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Not to promote walking on eggshells for anyone, but the 5 minute warning works for me:

When someone calls and I have a limited amount of time I say "I only have 5 minutes to talk: it is "x" oclock now. That means at "x:05" I will have to hang up. Then at ":05" I remind the person what I said and we say end the conversation.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LovelyLady said:
When someone calls and I have a limited amount of time I say "I only have 5 minutes to talk: it is "x" oclock now. That means at "x:05" I will have to hang up. Then at ":05" I remind the person what I said and we say end the conversation.
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Setting frame at the start of conversation. I like that.
 
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