"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Getting off the phone, pisses her off.

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This chick that I called earlier didn't answer, but she ends up returning my call and I'm already trying to go to sleep but she's all talking to me on the phone. When I tell her "I'm gonna go to sleep" she gets all fkn pissed off like "FINE! GO TO FVCKIN SLEEP THEN" and then it's like I have to stay on the phone. I wanted to just tell her so bad "Look, I'll call you tomorrow. I'm going to sleep, Goodnight, Bye." But she just wouldn't allow me. She would be pissed off whenever I try to get off the phone. But then it ended up with me just staying on the damn phone until I guess she fell asleep, well, the phone Hung Up. So I'm finally happy. But seriously, How the hell is the best way to get off the phone with a chick to where she's not so damn upset? Unless...Making her upset would make her want me even more. Next time do I just not give a fvk what happens even if it makes me look bad?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Always leave her wanting more. By constanting failing her sh!t tests, you are just boring her and losing her interest for you.
 
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Can I ask why you care about keeping a women happy? I mean I would think doing something your body needs would take more priority then some little sluzzy but then again that's just me, next time just tell her your tired and she called you to late and you'll call her some other time good luck.
 
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j0n024 said:
Can I ask why you care about keeping a women happy? I mean I would think doing something your body needs would take more priority then some little sluzzy but then again that's just me, next time just tell her your tired and she called you to late and you'll call her some other time good luck.
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Reason being is because I don't want to piss this chick off when I'm fvcking her for free. If I tell her "Fck I'm sleeping! Call you tomorrow..." or Hang up on her. Then I can kiss me fvcking her goodbye. I shouldn't even count on if she'll even answer my call when I call her the next day.
 
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montybrown said:
Reason being is because I don't want to piss this chick off when I'm fvcking her for free. If I tell her "Fck I'm sleeping! Call you tomorrow..." or Hang up on her. Then I can kiss me fvcking her goodbye. I shouldn't even count on if she'll even answer my call when I call her the next day.
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That's where you're wrong. If you show you have a back bone you might be getting laid more often.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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she sounds immature and self absorbed.
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Very much so.

Having said that, if you just want to bang her then grand. But you shouldn't need to bend over backwards to accomodate her. It's like buying sex by lavishing her with attention. Deny her attention and have her crawling back to you is a much preferable situation.

As to how to hang up, it's best to be ****y and midly arrogant to put her in your place without looking like your annoyed at her, or even that you care if she throws a tantrum or not.

How about: "Anyway, I better recharge the batteries so I can fvck you senseless tomorrow. Night babe!" and hang up before she has a chance to protest. If she calls back, ignore the call. Don't call her the next day because that gives her a chance to show her disapproval by not picking up. So instead just ignore her and wait until she gets so horny she calls you.

The basic idea is that you have to do what you want, in an assertive and ****y manner, and make it obvious (by your actions) that you don't care if she gets pissy about it or not.
 
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montybrown said:
Reason being is because I don't want to piss this chick off when I'm fvcking her for free. If I tell her "Fck I'm sleeping! Call you tomorrow..." or Hang up on her. Then I can kiss me fvcking her goodbye. I shouldn't even count on if she'll even answer my call when I call her the next day.
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cmon man .. the reason she's being like this is cuz ur looking too needy . U gotta act like u dont care what she thinks or what she's gonna do .. " Double Your Dating " from David DeAngelo helped me a lot of showing girls that im the boss , i am the one that they gotta try to make me happy . Think about this.
 
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Hey montybrown, the reason she's like that is because of the frame.. She knows she can act out and get compliance.. If you set the right frame from the start, this would have never happened.

So with next chic do it right.

With this one, get caller ID, answer when you want to. Also, reframe your phone relationship with her to only setting up dates and meets.


Pleasing your woman and making her happy should only be reserved for bed. Your d!ck is a gift. She can have as many men friends she uses for talking as she wants.



Daddy is right. Absolutely no fear of screwing it up. No bending you to fit her style, because real players don't do that.
 
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Not to promote walking on eggshells for anyone, but the 5 minute warning works for me:

When someone calls and I have a limited amount of time I say "I only have 5 minutes to talk: it is "x" oclock now. That means at "x:05" I will have to hang up. Then at ":05" I remind the person what I said and we say end the conversation.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LovelyLady said:
When someone calls and I have a limited amount of time I say "I only have 5 minutes to talk: it is "x" oclock now. That means at "x:05" I will have to hang up. Then at ":05" I remind the person what I said and we say end the conversation.
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Setting frame at the start of conversation. I like that.
 
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