"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Getting numbers on MySpace

banGbro

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Where is that How to fvck on myspace thread by skip to my lou out? I cant find it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Who cares. Skip was sadly mis-guided and that thread was trash.

Myspace sucks for picking up women. I have MUCH greater success in the real world.

Meet women in real life and then get their myspace...it will work so much easier that way..
 

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hm, I want to try it, if you dont mind, debbie
 

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i will now channel the spirit of skip to my loser. hey! stupid F***. it me skip. put up three of your hottest photos. ab photo, chest photo, face shot. only three photos. send 1,111 messages to every girl within 100 miles of your place. tell them that you are hot and you think they are ok. you will get probably 10 messages back. isolate and destroy. i banged a hb9 last night while you were getting off to cartoons. wanna see a pic?

did that help?
 

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Im trying profiles with hot pictures of hot dudes and different content featuring different personalities. This is screwing around and finding what works better.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Probably not the one you're looking for, but here's the latest one I remember: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=114531&highlight=myspace

To all the haters - just cause you suck at picking up chicks online doesn't make it a bad resource.

Couple things I've found out:

1) You have to be pretty unique in your approach on Myspace, as your emails will be directly tied to how a person perceives you by your profile. Not sure how to better explain it. In that other thread MBS says what works for him. I tried it, and it didn't work at all. I have my own method that's different from other people's but works for me. I'm actually conducting a bit of an experiment to see what my success rate with my current approach really is. So far about 10%.

2) Even though your success rate per attempt is lower on the net than in real life, that doesn't make it worse. The fact of the matter is that while you may spend X minutes chatting up 2-3 girls you meet in a day somewhere, I can contact a good 20-30 in the same amount of time and have roughly the same overall success rate (final outcome in numbers remains the same and so does the time invested).
 

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banGbro,

I didn't mean to come off as a smarta$$ to you. I've just done what your talking about. I dated a couple chicks that I met through myspace so the potential is definately there...but there's alot of hassle. Just read me out:

In person, you SEE each other. That way theres nothing to hide. I've met some chicks that looked ALOT hotter in their pics than they really are. For both parties its better in person because that way you each get to see exactly what your dealing with. Also, I've noticed that its hard to be ****y/funny over email/aim. Alot of times you have to be EXTREMELY clear in what you say to them, or they can take it the wrong way. And something else worth noting is the fact that even if they respond well to you, they almost always flake out when you try to get a date. Numbers I could get all day...but getting them out of the house and into a date was like pulling teeth.


md3sign,

In response to what you posted (the #'d things)

1) Your absolutely right. I had a very high response rate on my random emails I sent out. I'd say at least 70% would respon back. Of that I probably got 50% of their aim SN's and 20% of their numbers. In the 2-3 months I spent trying on myspace I only got 2 dates out of the deal. A couple I ran into in real life but those werent dates. Like you, I developed my own style that seemed to work really well.

2) You may be right, but when somebody else besides skip starts posting about how he's averaging 5+ dates a month from myspace I would still consider it a waste unless its done at a time when I CANT be out socializing.


Let me make one last statement:

Everything I say here is MY opinion, and you know what they say about those... The way I see it is I have a better chance in real life...with fewer #'s of females. If I screw it up on myspace, then I probably have blown it with the girl in advance if I ever run into her in person. Also, who knows how many people she's talking to online? I get the feeling alot of girls think of guys as being creepy when they try to pick them up over myspace/aim. And if you move onto her circle of friends and she finds out...then what? Suppose she blows you out of the water BEFORE you even get through her friends list. Just my thoughts!:D
 

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My opinion on online is that it is total crap, I disagree with DD that you could lay b1tches online in masses. Maybe you could, its not fun. In person stimulation is so much more.

Im taking pictures of hot dudes from hotornot.com, putting them on myspace, and creating different profiles. So that I can test out both looks and message.. I measure the responses by how many I get and whether they give me their IM when I ask.

Im just fvcking around here, and using this as a motivation for me to wake up tomorrow around 5:30 and start running and get myself in shape. The fact that you see females responding to hot guys in such different ways hits your balls pretty hard, especially when you can visualize your real life encounters and picture yourself being hotter.

I think this will work.
 

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hehe. one of my promotions co workers wore a tshirt to day that read "You looked way hotter on myspace" I couldn't help but laugh.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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