"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Getting numbers is easy

comic_relief

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Hey guys,

its comic_relief and I am here to tell you all about the secret to getting numbers.

Even an AFC can do it this way because it is that simple.

1.) Find a friend or just a girl walking alone - single targets are a lot easier to get alone or just find a friend and break into the group. I have got to the point where I can cold approach groups of girls and get numbers while in their.

2.) Start talking to them and leave the conversation on their goals, but create common ground, or rapport - Don't be a stranger. Ask open ended questions.

3.) disagree on a few main points though - HB's are unuse to this because most guys will just agree with them all of the time. Be different.

4.) isolate the target - It can be as simple as "Let's get out of here and do something." if you have built enough rapport and interest (don't forget that if they don't have interest you are as good as dead) , then they are gaurenteed to leave or at least give you their number.

5.) Have fun - personally, I like a movie back at her place. BTW a little thing that I learned to check if they are interested is if they make you wait outside to clean the room really quick (most girls that are interested will want to show their best side, not their messy side).

6.) Repeat

With this style, I have made out with or had fun so much that I choose now who I want. Believe me, this works and is field tested. Hell, I got the swing club Vice-President to make out with me, even after I found that she had a boyfriend :D .

It's a numbers game and practicing it makes it better. I have at all times at least four numbers. Remember have interesting things to say such as stories, hobbies, or little anecdotes. Make a list of things that you have just to be in a constant reminder of why you are interesting.

comic_relief
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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