"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Getting numbers is easy

comic_relief

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Hey guys,

its comic_relief and I am here to tell you all about the secret to getting numbers.

Even an AFC can do it this way because it is that simple.

1.) Find a friend or just a girl walking alone - single targets are a lot easier to get alone or just find a friend and break into the group. I have got to the point where I can cold approach groups of girls and get numbers while in their.

2.) Start talking to them and leave the conversation on their goals, but create common ground, or rapport - Don't be a stranger. Ask open ended questions.

3.) disagree on a few main points though - HB's are unuse to this because most guys will just agree with them all of the time. Be different.

4.) isolate the target - It can be as simple as "Let's get out of here and do something." if you have built enough rapport and interest (don't forget that if they don't have interest you are as good as dead) , then they are gaurenteed to leave or at least give you their number.

5.) Have fun - personally, I like a movie back at her place. BTW a little thing that I learned to check if they are interested is if they make you wait outside to clean the room really quick (most girls that are interested will want to show their best side, not their messy side).

6.) Repeat

With this style, I have made out with or had fun so much that I choose now who I want. Believe me, this works and is field tested. Hell, I got the swing club Vice-President to make out with me, even after I found that she had a boyfriend :D .

It's a numbers game and practicing it makes it better. I have at all times at least four numbers. Remember have interesting things to say such as stories, hobbies, or little anecdotes. Make a list of things that you have just to be in a constant reminder of why you are interesting.

comic_relief
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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