"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Getting money out of girls? (not prostitution)

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How can u do this? How can you turn it into a favorable situation?

I know you are gonna say value, etc. Ok if you can explain it go ahead. But what about after, if she already finds value in yoU?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well, if she has money, you give a little, she'll give a lot back. Don't try to buy her things of equal value, just cheap but fun things.
 

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Say I got to go to the store so give me some money cause I don't got any.
Or I need money to buy (whatever)

I have found when a girl has high interest in me, they will give me money. Or even steal money for me, to please me. Now, this is from my experiences so who knows what ways you could get money out of your b!tch.
 

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find yourself an AFC chick, they're awesome. I have one that gets me free weed at the snap of a finger.
 

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I think taking money from girls is selfish, unless her family is rich.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I don't think you should be encouraging people to steal for you though.

People only steal things they can't have.
An AFC way of getting something, not to mention of poor honor.
 

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If you have high moral values, then use your PUA skills in your career.
 

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I'm not talking about stealing. I'm talking about reaching a point where the girl wants to give you stuff, and then how to get it out of them, because typically I lose the "argument" (argument shouldnt happen) when the issue of giving/lending comes up. They also want to be paid back. "spending time with you is paying you back" often doesn't work because that seems to only work when they see HUGE value in you.

I'm also talking about before any serious relationship has started. Before you even kiss her. I wouldnt want that anyway unless there was money involved

I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Say I got to go to the store so give me some money cause I don't got any.
Or I need money to buy (whatever)

I have found when a girl has high interest in me, they will give me money. Or even steal money for me, to please me. Now, this is from my experiences so who knows what ways you could get money out of your b!tch.
Yeah that should work but usually they want the money back, they assume you're just borrowing it. I try to avoid the argument of why they should just give it instead of just lending it, since I dont know how to win that one.
 

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Basically you want her to pay tributes to you as a god.

lol I'd like that, but it's gonna be pretty hard because it depends on the type of girl and how much force of influence you have over her.

Are you looking for a girl to become desperate for you though?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lol "pay tributes to you as a god." i kinda laughed out load..

What you could do is say "Do you have a dollar i can borrow" i was with a friend who did this,he's extremely funny and while i was with him he asked about 5 people,3 of them actually gave him money.
 
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