"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Getting money out of girls? (not prostitution)

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How can u do this? How can you turn it into a favorable situation?

I know you are gonna say value, etc. Ok if you can explain it go ahead. But what about after, if she already finds value in yoU?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well, if she has money, you give a little, she'll give a lot back. Don't try to buy her things of equal value, just cheap but fun things.
 

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Say I got to go to the store so give me some money cause I don't got any.
Or I need money to buy (whatever)

I have found when a girl has high interest in me, they will give me money. Or even steal money for me, to please me. Now, this is from my experiences so who knows what ways you could get money out of your b!tch.
 

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find yourself an AFC chick, they're awesome. I have one that gets me free weed at the snap of a finger.
 

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I think taking money from girls is selfish, unless her family is rich.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I don't think you should be encouraging people to steal for you though.

People only steal things they can't have.
An AFC way of getting something, not to mention of poor honor.
 

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If you have high moral values, then use your PUA skills in your career.
 

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I'm not talking about stealing. I'm talking about reaching a point where the girl wants to give you stuff, and then how to get it out of them, because typically I lose the "argument" (argument shouldnt happen) when the issue of giving/lending comes up. They also want to be paid back. "spending time with you is paying you back" often doesn't work because that seems to only work when they see HUGE value in you.

I'm also talking about before any serious relationship has started. Before you even kiss her. I wouldnt want that anyway unless there was money involved

I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Say I got to go to the store so give me some money cause I don't got any.
Or I need money to buy (whatever)

I have found when a girl has high interest in me, they will give me money. Or even steal money for me, to please me. Now, this is from my experiences so who knows what ways you could get money out of your b!tch.
Yeah that should work but usually they want the money back, they assume you're just borrowing it. I try to avoid the argument of why they should just give it instead of just lending it, since I dont know how to win that one.
 

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Basically you want her to pay tributes to you as a god.

lol I'd like that, but it's gonna be pretty hard because it depends on the type of girl and how much force of influence you have over her.

Are you looking for a girl to become desperate for you though?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lol "pay tributes to you as a god." i kinda laughed out load..

What you could do is say "Do you have a dollar i can borrow" i was with a friend who did this,he's extremely funny and while i was with him he asked about 5 people,3 of them actually gave him money.
 
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