Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Getting Moles From Natural Sun Light

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So when I go to the beach, I try not to wear sunscreen so I can get a tan. But the problem is that after I get a tan, it goes away...The REAL problem is I get moles...WTF???

So does exposer to the sun create more moles? Any suggestions to this problem?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Get that check out by a doc - New moles can be signs of skin cancer.
 

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Usually new moles do NOT mean skin cancer, but yes there is a risk. If you get skin cancer, it's going to be a mole first. What you need to watch out for is irregular looking and asymmetric moles, and moles that appear bigger than a few years ago.
 

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lol...aite based on my (limited) knowledge on this topic

sunBLOCK - blocks the sun out completely or 90 something percent
sunTAN - allows you to get a tan healthily

u shud be wearing shades too.
 

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There's no difference between sunblock and suntan lotion besides the marketing angle. Products named suntan lotion generally just have a lower SPF than sunblock.

If you want to build a tan, don't use any lotion and find out your limit of how much sun you can take before you burn. When you reach your limit, go indoors. If you just want to stay out in the sun for the fun of it, put on a strong sunblock right away. If you want something in between, wait 10-20 minutes before putting on a strong sunblock. Don't waste your money on SPF 5 suntan lotion.

To my knowledge there is no way to prevent moles and still get a tan, though burning tends to create more moles than tanning.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Could be skin cancer from UV ray. In Australia and New Zealand the UV ray is very harmful coz the Ozone layer is very thin in this region.
 
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