"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Getting Moles From Natural Sun Light

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So when I go to the beach, I try not to wear sunscreen so I can get a tan. But the problem is that after I get a tan, it goes away...The REAL problem is I get moles...WTF???

So does exposer to the sun create more moles? Any suggestions to this problem?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Get that check out by a doc - New moles can be signs of skin cancer.
 

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Usually new moles do NOT mean skin cancer, but yes there is a risk. If you get skin cancer, it's going to be a mole first. What you need to watch out for is irregular looking and asymmetric moles, and moles that appear bigger than a few years ago.
 

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lol...aite based on my (limited) knowledge on this topic

sunBLOCK - blocks the sun out completely or 90 something percent
sunTAN - allows you to get a tan healthily

u shud be wearing shades too.
 

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There's no difference between sunblock and suntan lotion besides the marketing angle. Products named suntan lotion generally just have a lower SPF than sunblock.

If you want to build a tan, don't use any lotion and find out your limit of how much sun you can take before you burn. When you reach your limit, go indoors. If you just want to stay out in the sun for the fun of it, put on a strong sunblock right away. If you want something in between, wait 10-20 minutes before putting on a strong sunblock. Don't waste your money on SPF 5 suntan lotion.

To my knowledge there is no way to prevent moles and still get a tan, though burning tends to create more moles than tanning.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Could be skin cancer from UV ray. In Australia and New Zealand the UV ray is very harmful coz the Ozone layer is very thin in this region.
 
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