"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Getting mixed signals from my Boss

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Moved to this job by a promotion this year in August

Just to point out my is going out with the boss of the company.

Since I moved to this new job , I've been under the impression that she doesn't want me here but she has been talking to me here and there.

At one point i was on my home and she was going out for a smoke, i noticed her waiting by the lift, as soon as i get near the lift she then calls for the lift not before.

When we get in the lift she starts telling me how her broken foot is doing and how she tried to drive but failed.

So i found this pretty strange

and then when we were at a club with co workers , she offered me a drink of red wine from her glass, which was a wtf moment for me, and then she even finished it all from the same glass.

The same night she looked at me and blew air on my face and after said that I'll look after you as much as she can but I'll have to look after her too.

She also lit up a cigarette from her mouth and gave me one .

Also she asked me that if i knew that her and the boss are together and i said yes.


So what do you guy's think are those signs or not ?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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leave it well alone.
EDIT: Its just small talk, maybe a little flirting there - but dont mess around at work
 
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This is dangerous. Just be professional. Things are okay now, but when relationships go bad at work, they REALLY go bad. She could ruin your work reputation or worse. Steer clear.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yeah i totally get what your saying Dap and i'm really trying to be professional

but when ever she talks to me i melt or even just pays me a little attention.

All last week she was pretty much cold to me as in not talking to me much then today after she sent out the invite for her birthday she was hot on me, like talking to me and trying to make conversation :-/
 
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