"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Getting mixed signals from my Boss

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Moved to this job by a promotion this year in August

Just to point out my is going out with the boss of the company.

Since I moved to this new job , I've been under the impression that she doesn't want me here but she has been talking to me here and there.

At one point i was on my home and she was going out for a smoke, i noticed her waiting by the lift, as soon as i get near the lift she then calls for the lift not before.

When we get in the lift she starts telling me how her broken foot is doing and how she tried to drive but failed.

So i found this pretty strange

and then when we were at a club with co workers , she offered me a drink of red wine from her glass, which was a wtf moment for me, and then she even finished it all from the same glass.

The same night she looked at me and blew air on my face and after said that I'll look after you as much as she can but I'll have to look after her too.

She also lit up a cigarette from her mouth and gave me one .

Also she asked me that if i knew that her and the boss are together and i said yes.


So what do you guy's think are those signs or not ?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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leave it well alone.
EDIT: Its just small talk, maybe a little flirting there - but dont mess around at work
 
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This is dangerous. Just be professional. Things are okay now, but when relationships go bad at work, they REALLY go bad. She could ruin your work reputation or worse. Steer clear.
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Yeah i totally get what your saying Dap and i'm really trying to be professional

but when ever she talks to me i melt or even just pays me a little attention.

All last week she was pretty much cold to me as in not talking to me much then today after she sent out the invite for her birthday she was hot on me, like talking to me and trying to make conversation :-/
 
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