You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
It's all in the (DJ) Bible.It's-Me said:Well here's my sticking point: getting laid.
Meeting women has become much easier for me. The problem is I don't know how to get them to fvck.
Thanks for the help!
agreed. its easy to fvck a girlfriend in high school but know you won't get it on a random hookup unless you get her drunk and you'll feel like **** afterwards if you do such a thing. that isn't worth iteaglez1177 said:Well since your still in HS, the only way you'll be able to get laid will be if you have a girlfriend. If you dont have a gf, then its gonna be REALLY tough to get laid in highschool. Plus, if your fvcking a girl in hs and your not goin out or anythin, shes probably a major slvt, so watch out!
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Not true. Girls will still have sex with you in HS even without dating them and it doesn't make them a slvt either. In fact, if you want to get anywhere with woman you better take that word out of your vocabulary. It's because of this name dropping that makes it so difficult for guys like you to even get laid. Pretty much any girl who has sex in HS gets labeled a slut. Why? Because mostly everyone else isn't getting it. Sure, there are slvts out there. But in HS everything is black and white. You're either cool or you're not. You're having sex (a slut) or you're not (a loser). HS is built upon such bullsh!t I'm just glad I finally graduated. Point is, if we look down upon woman being sexually active then that gets us nowhere, and it's also hypocritical. How come guys can sleep with as many girls as they want, but whenever a girl has sex with a guy she isn't dating she is a "slut"? Girls take this sh!t to heart, and that's why they run anti-slut defenses. Instead of looking down on her, acknowledge her braveness and tell her you respect her for not being afraid of her sexuality. Guarantee you have a better chance of sleeping with her then.eaglez1177 said:Well since your still in HS, the only way you'll be able to get laid will be if you have a girlfriend. If you dont have a gf, then its gonna be REALLY tough to get laid in highschool. Plus, if your fvcking a girl in hs and your not goin out or anythin, shes probably a major slvt, so watch out!