Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
It's all in the (DJ) Bible.It's-Me said:Well here's my sticking point: getting laid.
Meeting women has become much easier for me. The problem is I don't know how to get them to fvck.
Thanks for the help!
agreed. its easy to fvck a girlfriend in high school but know you won't get it on a random hookup unless you get her drunk and you'll feel like **** afterwards if you do such a thing. that isn't worth iteaglez1177 said:Well since your still in HS, the only way you'll be able to get laid will be if you have a girlfriend. If you dont have a gf, then its gonna be REALLY tough to get laid in highschool. Plus, if your fvcking a girl in hs and your not goin out or anythin, shes probably a major slvt, so watch out!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Not true. Girls will still have sex with you in HS even without dating them and it doesn't make them a slvt either. In fact, if you want to get anywhere with woman you better take that word out of your vocabulary. It's because of this name dropping that makes it so difficult for guys like you to even get laid. Pretty much any girl who has sex in HS gets labeled a slut. Why? Because mostly everyone else isn't getting it. Sure, there are slvts out there. But in HS everything is black and white. You're either cool or you're not. You're having sex (a slut) or you're not (a loser). HS is built upon such bullsh!t I'm just glad I finally graduated. Point is, if we look down upon woman being sexually active then that gets us nowhere, and it's also hypocritical. How come guys can sleep with as many girls as they want, but whenever a girl has sex with a guy she isn't dating she is a "slut"? Girls take this sh!t to heart, and that's why they run anti-slut defenses. Instead of looking down on her, acknowledge her braveness and tell her you respect her for not being afraid of her sexuality. Guarantee you have a better chance of sleeping with her then.eaglez1177 said:Well since your still in HS, the only way you'll be able to get laid will be if you have a girlfriend. If you dont have a gf, then its gonna be REALLY tough to get laid in highschool. Plus, if your fvcking a girl in hs and your not goin out or anythin, shes probably a major slvt, so watch out!