"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Getting lack of IOI's

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drchristiantroy

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I have a problem. I have heard that before you approach a women, you should look for things that would indicate that they are interested (like looking my way to where I should accidently see them looking at me, or even when I look their way they usually don't glance in my direction, I have trouble locking glances with women, also for example a couple of time attractive women have came up to my friend who they know but they wouldn't introduce them selves to me).

I have read that if a woman is interested in you then she will display the signals before you approach and these signal should be there. I am not sure what is causing me not to get these. I mean I am 6'3", I have picture on my profile, so I am not a bad looking guy, I dress nice (mainly express), walk upright with my head up. So what gives? Can anyone help me out here?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Shezz said:
ASSUME ATTRACTION!!!! AND APPROACH! STOP MAKING EXCUSES!!

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And I add that you should be on the offensive and stop waiting to react on what she does.
 
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drchristiantroy

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ok... I guess that about sums it up. that makes sense, i guess that when you try to look for indicators of interest then you are just looking for appoval from the woman.

I guess it is about time to get a refund for conversation king. that is where I read about the idea in the first place.
 
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conversation king is written by a woman =P
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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GloriouslyInsane

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Problem is,as mentioned already,that you are too passive.You should do the first stare,you should approach,and you should introduce yourself to them.Always think as a hunter.
 
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