"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Getting lack of IOI's

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drchristiantroy

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I have a problem. I have heard that before you approach a women, you should look for things that would indicate that they are interested (like looking my way to where I should accidently see them looking at me, or even when I look their way they usually don't glance in my direction, I have trouble locking glances with women, also for example a couple of time attractive women have came up to my friend who they know but they wouldn't introduce them selves to me).

I have read that if a woman is interested in you then she will display the signals before you approach and these signal should be there. I am not sure what is causing me not to get these. I mean I am 6'3", I have picture on my profile, so I am not a bad looking guy, I dress nice (mainly express), walk upright with my head up. So what gives? Can anyone help me out here?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Shezz said:
ASSUME ATTRACTION!!!! AND APPROACH! STOP MAKING EXCUSES!!

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And I add that you should be on the offensive and stop waiting to react on what she does.
 
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drchristiantroy

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ok... I guess that about sums it up. that makes sense, i guess that when you try to look for indicators of interest then you are just looking for appoval from the woman.

I guess it is about time to get a refund for conversation king. that is where I read about the idea in the first place.
 
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conversation king is written by a woman =P
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Problem is,as mentioned already,that you are too passive.You should do the first stare,you should approach,and you should introduce yourself to them.Always think as a hunter.
 
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