"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Getting it from your GF?

Wine Country

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I've been with this girl for over three months now. I've wrestled her away from her boyfriend (who was in Iraq), I've gotten her to go to bed and make out with me and another chick, and I've gotten her to finally let me eat her out...

but I can't get her to put out.

She's given me every excuse (I'm scared its going to hurt/I care about you and I don't want it to effect our relationship/I don't know if we're ready), and I've played it cool. But I'm getting impatient.

I probably could be hittin' it with another friend of mine, but I'm avoiding that 'cause her BF would beat the living **** out of me, so I wanna finish off this gig, but its a no go.

I'd pull away and make her make the move, but I have a feeling she'd use that as an excuse to not do me.

What's the best strategery here?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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girlsarecrazy

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3 months... damn! It's def about time.

Usually I hear the minimum is a 3 week wait before you have sex if you want the relationship to last.

Try just making the moves. See what happends when you get her completely naked in bed. Don't be afraid to make moves. She'll let you know when she feels uncomfortable.
 

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I just have a question....how is her letting you eat her out beneficial to you??
...you get to see a snatch??

I once had this girl who told me she wasnt going to fvck me or blow me, but she would LET me eat her out....I stared at her for a hot second while my train of thought was, "What the fvck??? thats just more work for me," and said "No."

Couple days later she came around and we had sex...

To answer your question, letting her make the move probably won't work...women rarely make the first move. They like men who take charge, so sitting around waiting for her to do something wont work.

Don't be afraid to make moves...go out, have a good time and flash her a sly smile every once in a while...just be comfortable with your sexuality. You will know if you are doing something she doesn't want/isn't ready for, verbally or non verbally...

~WA
 

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i just have a question..You are taking a girl from a guy that is in iraq fighting for our country?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I hope the bf come home and beats the **** out of you.
 

speedo_meme

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I don't blame the girl at all. I'd beat your gimped up ass to a pulp myself if I knew where you were. I was in Iraq there too, pal, and rest assured I know I wasn't fighting for greasy little vaginal secretions like yourself. And add to the fact that "girlsarecrazy", the biggest homer baffoon on this site, is the only person actually replying seriously to your faggot ass thread. I'd say you'd be better suited someplace else asshat.
 

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Poppa3 said:
i just have a question..You are taking a girl from a guy that is in iraq fighting for our country?
I cannot understand why someone always has to steal someone elses girlfriend? Can't people find their own tail that is single?

I hope the guy kicks your @$$.

comic_relief
 

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theres one thing i dont get...

every mouth-breather on this site is vehemently against stealing a girl from someone in another country, but most of you see nothing wrong with taking a girl from some AFC in a bar or something.

make up your underdeveloped minds already!! for god's sake, pick a side!

Why does everyone feel the need to steal someone elses girl anyways? why cant we all have each other's backs, and just accept that women arent worth it. If someone else has a g/f, even if hes a chump, good for him! He did something right, dont ruin it for him. Let him have his fun already.



by the way, I see tittyman making an uninformed, loudmouthed post soon, this will set him off i think.
 

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Regardless of the political undertones she isn't that interested in you. She is using you for attention and nothing more. I'd just move on.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I have no shame in taking the fiance of some asshat baby killer who is "defending my country" from some country that never once attacked "my country" because he couldn't cut it at college.

And if you even bring up 9/11 and all of the people who died in that... don't worry, we've more than negated that number with our soldier's death toll since.

To bring it back to the current topic she's very sexual and has done many things for me (bought me satin sheets, surprised me when I came home from a long day at work, other things...), so its not necessarily the case where I'm not getting anything. She just seems to have a slight aversion to the idea of actual intercourse.

Oh... and just a little reminder...

All's fair in love and war. Especially when the two coincide.
 

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Fukk you and your political bullsh1t. Karma's a b1tch mother fukker...
 

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The stealing the GF from a man overseas argument aside,

Is she a virgin? How old are both of you?

Also, does she give you BJ's or HJ's on a regular basis?

It sounds like either she cares for you but isn't very attracted or you're not arousing her in the proper manner. I'm guessing the former and she's just looking for emotional comfort.
 

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JC9 said:
The stealing the GF from a man overseas argument aside,

Is she a virgin? How old are both of you?
No, but she is really tight (one finger only as of now), since she hadn't gotten any since her ex left in August of last year. Early 20's.
 

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Wine Country said:
I have no shame in taking the fiance of some asshat baby killer who is "defending my country" from some country that never once attacked "my country" because he couldn't cut it at college.

And if you even bring up 9/11 and all of the people who died in that... don't worry, we've more than negated that number with our soldier's death toll since.

To bring it back to the current topic she's very sexual and has done many things for me (bought me satin sheets, surprised me when I came home from a long day at work, other things...), so its not necessarily the case where I'm not getting anything. She just seems to have a slight aversion to the idea of actual intercourse.

Oh... and just a little reminder...

All's fair in love and war. Especially when the two coincide.
The sick thing is that your proud you stole this girl from this guy in Iraq. Otherwise you would have never mentioned it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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milrenkb said:
The sick thing is that your proud you stole this girl from this guy in Iraq. Otherwise you would have never mentioned it.)
Bingo.

Wine Country said:
I've wrestled her away from her boyfriend (who was in Iraq)
You got yours coming, little b1tch...Why not go after another girl, or wait till they break up? You got an agenda, that's why. Faggot ass prob'ly got picked on too much in high school...
 
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comic_relief said:
I cannot understand why someone always has to steal someone elses girlfriend? Can't people find their own tail that is single?

I hope the guy kicks your @$$.

comic_relief
Everything is fair in love and war.... and life.

The guy went overseas. He knew this would happen. And it did.


Get over it. Especially since this isn't your problem.
 

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milrenkb said:
The sick thing is that your proud you stole this girl from this guy in Iraq. Otherwise you would have never mentioned it.
So what if I am?
 

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Speedo, your really making yourself look like an ignorant ****ing idiot.
 

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blowme said:
Speedo, your really making yourself look like an ignorant ****ing idiot.
Please explain how. And don't bring politics, Bush-bashing or anything of the sort to the table.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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