"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Getting it from your GF?

Wine Country

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I've been with this girl for over three months now. I've wrestled her away from her boyfriend (who was in Iraq), I've gotten her to go to bed and make out with me and another chick, and I've gotten her to finally let me eat her out...

but I can't get her to put out.

She's given me every excuse (I'm scared its going to hurt/I care about you and I don't want it to effect our relationship/I don't know if we're ready), and I've played it cool. But I'm getting impatient.

I probably could be hittin' it with another friend of mine, but I'm avoiding that 'cause her BF would beat the living **** out of me, so I wanna finish off this gig, but its a no go.

I'd pull away and make her make the move, but I have a feeling she'd use that as an excuse to not do me.

What's the best strategery here?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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girlsarecrazy

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3 months... damn! It's def about time.

Usually I hear the minimum is a 3 week wait before you have sex if you want the relationship to last.

Try just making the moves. See what happends when you get her completely naked in bed. Don't be afraid to make moves. She'll let you know when she feels uncomfortable.
 

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I just have a question....how is her letting you eat her out beneficial to you??
...you get to see a snatch??

I once had this girl who told me she wasnt going to fvck me or blow me, but she would LET me eat her out....I stared at her for a hot second while my train of thought was, "What the fvck??? thats just more work for me," and said "No."

Couple days later she came around and we had sex...

To answer your question, letting her make the move probably won't work...women rarely make the first move. They like men who take charge, so sitting around waiting for her to do something wont work.

Don't be afraid to make moves...go out, have a good time and flash her a sly smile every once in a while...just be comfortable with your sexuality. You will know if you are doing something she doesn't want/isn't ready for, verbally or non verbally...

~WA
 

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i just have a question..You are taking a girl from a guy that is in iraq fighting for our country?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I hope the bf come home and beats the **** out of you.
 

speedo_meme

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I don't blame the girl at all. I'd beat your gimped up ass to a pulp myself if I knew where you were. I was in Iraq there too, pal, and rest assured I know I wasn't fighting for greasy little vaginal secretions like yourself. And add to the fact that "girlsarecrazy", the biggest homer baffoon on this site, is the only person actually replying seriously to your faggot ass thread. I'd say you'd be better suited someplace else asshat.
 

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Poppa3 said:
i just have a question..You are taking a girl from a guy that is in iraq fighting for our country?
I cannot understand why someone always has to steal someone elses girlfriend? Can't people find their own tail that is single?

I hope the guy kicks your @$$.

comic_relief
 

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theres one thing i dont get...

every mouth-breather on this site is vehemently against stealing a girl from someone in another country, but most of you see nothing wrong with taking a girl from some AFC in a bar or something.

make up your underdeveloped minds already!! for god's sake, pick a side!

Why does everyone feel the need to steal someone elses girl anyways? why cant we all have each other's backs, and just accept that women arent worth it. If someone else has a g/f, even if hes a chump, good for him! He did something right, dont ruin it for him. Let him have his fun already.



by the way, I see tittyman making an uninformed, loudmouthed post soon, this will set him off i think.
 

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Regardless of the political undertones she isn't that interested in you. She is using you for attention and nothing more. I'd just move on.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I have no shame in taking the fiance of some asshat baby killer who is "defending my country" from some country that never once attacked "my country" because he couldn't cut it at college.

And if you even bring up 9/11 and all of the people who died in that... don't worry, we've more than negated that number with our soldier's death toll since.

To bring it back to the current topic she's very sexual and has done many things for me (bought me satin sheets, surprised me when I came home from a long day at work, other things...), so its not necessarily the case where I'm not getting anything. She just seems to have a slight aversion to the idea of actual intercourse.

Oh... and just a little reminder...

All's fair in love and war. Especially when the two coincide.
 

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Fukk you and your political bullsh1t. Karma's a b1tch mother fukker...
 

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The stealing the GF from a man overseas argument aside,

Is she a virgin? How old are both of you?

Also, does she give you BJ's or HJ's on a regular basis?

It sounds like either she cares for you but isn't very attracted or you're not arousing her in the proper manner. I'm guessing the former and she's just looking for emotional comfort.
 

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JC9 said:
The stealing the GF from a man overseas argument aside,

Is she a virgin? How old are both of you?
No, but she is really tight (one finger only as of now), since she hadn't gotten any since her ex left in August of last year. Early 20's.
 

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Wine Country said:
I have no shame in taking the fiance of some asshat baby killer who is "defending my country" from some country that never once attacked "my country" because he couldn't cut it at college.

And if you even bring up 9/11 and all of the people who died in that... don't worry, we've more than negated that number with our soldier's death toll since.

To bring it back to the current topic she's very sexual and has done many things for me (bought me satin sheets, surprised me when I came home from a long day at work, other things...), so its not necessarily the case where I'm not getting anything. She just seems to have a slight aversion to the idea of actual intercourse.

Oh... and just a little reminder...

All's fair in love and war. Especially when the two coincide.
The sick thing is that your proud you stole this girl from this guy in Iraq. Otherwise you would have never mentioned it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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milrenkb said:
The sick thing is that your proud you stole this girl from this guy in Iraq. Otherwise you would have never mentioned it.)
Bingo.

Wine Country said:
I've wrestled her away from her boyfriend (who was in Iraq)
You got yours coming, little b1tch...Why not go after another girl, or wait till they break up? You got an agenda, that's why. Faggot ass prob'ly got picked on too much in high school...
 
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comic_relief said:
I cannot understand why someone always has to steal someone elses girlfriend? Can't people find their own tail that is single?

I hope the guy kicks your @$$.

comic_relief
Everything is fair in love and war.... and life.

The guy went overseas. He knew this would happen. And it did.


Get over it. Especially since this isn't your problem.
 

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milrenkb said:
The sick thing is that your proud you stole this girl from this guy in Iraq. Otherwise you would have never mentioned it.
So what if I am?
 

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Speedo, your really making yourself look like an ignorant ****ing idiot.
 

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blowme said:
Speedo, your really making yourself look like an ignorant ****ing idiot.
Please explain how. And don't bring politics, Bush-bashing or anything of the sort to the table.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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