“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Getting into the game

Andy123

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Hi all,

I haven't dated properly since college, mostly through choice (but a little coz of lack of options!) and i wanna get back into the "game". Any advice on where to start?

Need to build my confidence up, and need some ideas on where to meet women. Where's a good place to start?

Thanks
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Many guys recommend clubs and/or bars. I'm into neither so those choices don't suit me at all. But maybe that'll help you.
 

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Bars don't tend to work for me much either. I don't usually meet "single" women, usually groups of friends which isn't always ideal.

What does work for you?
 

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Everywhere.

The grocery store, gas station, park, coffee shop, bar, library, street, etc.

HB's are everywhere you look, all you have to do is sound off like you've got a pair and approach them. You don't have to # close every time simply because it's not always practical or appropriate, but don't be afraid to say hello.

No HB's are going to smack you for saying hi and smiling, making EC, or being friendly. But if you dont TRY, you will get NOWHERE!
 

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hot girls are a dime a dozen, its finding a girl you like for whats on the inside as well as the outside that is hard, because it takes so long to find the truth!
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Aint that the truth.
 

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Yeah, you're right, i need to open my eyes a bit more, and then my mouth!
 
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