"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hi all,

I haven't dated properly since college, mostly through choice (but a little coz of lack of options!) and i wanna get back into the "game". Any advice on where to start?

Need to build my confidence up, and need some ideas on where to meet women. Where's a good place to start?

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Many guys recommend clubs and/or bars. I'm into neither so those choices don't suit me at all. But maybe that'll help you.
 
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Bars don't tend to work for me much either. I don't usually meet "single" women, usually groups of friends which isn't always ideal.

What does work for you?
 
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Everywhere.

The grocery store, gas station, park, coffee shop, bar, library, street, etc.

HB's are everywhere you look, all you have to do is sound off like you've got a pair and approach them. You don't have to # close every time simply because it's not always practical or appropriate, but don't be afraid to say hello.

No HB's are going to smack you for saying hi and smiling, making EC, or being friendly. But if you dont TRY, you will get NOWHERE!
 
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hot girls are a dime a dozen, its finding a girl you like for whats on the inside as well as the outside that is hard, because it takes so long to find the truth!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Aint that the truth.
 
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Yeah, you're right, i need to open my eyes a bit more, and then my mouth!
 
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