Getting into 30's

[Xanderson]

No escaping the aging process but gsme in your thirties is pretty sweet but then again if your gsme is sharp from your teens then its all gravy by your 30's

 

[SW15]

It must be terrible for women. After 30yo, they slowly become invisible to men.

In real life, yes. However, due to massive thirst online, there are 30 and 40 something women who are generating a ton of interest. If not for technology, they'd be invisible. I know a 34 year old woman who is very average who has a swipe queue tremendously long. She gets more interest now than in her early 20s. I've heard of numerous 40-65 year old women who went on an app or website and suddenly became more in demand than they were in their teens and early 20s.

 

[Blacksheep]

Time to get it in bro! You are heading into your prime over the next 5 years, take advantage of it!

Thanks bro! =)

 

[rjc149]

It must be terrible for women. After 30yo, they slowly become invisible to men.

So goes red pill doctrine.

In practice, especially nowadays with OLD, 30+ women have no shortage of eager takers. Especially attractive ones who are 20x hornier than they were in their 20's. Easy pickings. Definitely not invisible to me.

 

[B80]

So goes red pill doctrine.

In practice, especially nowadays with OLD, 30+ women have no shortage of eager takers. Especially attractive ones who are 20x hornier than they were in their 20's. Easy pickings. Definitely not invisible to me.

indeed, seem to have less hangups compared to a lot of women in their twenties. coming out of marriages, where things have been stale for years.

Loads of attractive women in their 30's about. how many are suitable for relationships is another story.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

30's is young as long as your sociable and taking care of your life you'll be able to bang down to 25 years old or so. Don't listen to anyone saying life is over now that your no longer a kid.

 

[TheNewStyle123]

So, I'm 30 yrs old today and this made me think a lot about my life and everything that happened and is happening in my life.

The goal here is that I would like to express my gratitude since I joined this forum on 2018.

This place helped me in ways I could never have imagined. It all started when I read Rollo Tomassi's book and heard him quoting on this forum. And from that, I broke paradigms that I never imagined being able to.

I may not be able to express how important everything I learned here was, but for all that I went through, here was the best gift that life could give me. I still take the words of many people here who have helped me over the years and I admire the knowledge and wisdom they have shared with me. You may not know it, but it literally saved me ... Because from the direction I was going before, I wouldn't be reaping good results today.

I would like to leave a special thanks to some people here who helped me a lot. I don't know if I'll be able to remember them all, but I'll do my best:

@mrgoodstuff, @stovepipe, @Black Widow Void, @Spaz, @christie, @Lookatu, @EyeOnThePrize, @CAPSLOCK BANDIT, @DEEZEDBRAH, @Romanemp22, @Suave88, @EyeBRollin, @RickTheToad, @BackInTheGame78, @Serenity, @stringpuller, @logicallefty, @billtx49

Those are some few I can remember right now! I know there are a lot more people here that helped me a lot and I just want to say thank you for that! I might not conquer some goals in my life without your help.

But that's it... I just like to express my gratitude for everything positive that happened in my life.

Amen brother! Lotta great guys here on the forum. Just joined a little over a month ago and I'm really glad I found out about The Rational Male and sosuave!

 

[mrgoodstuff]

30's is young as long as your sociable and taking care of your life you'll be able to bang down to 25 years old or so. Don't listen to anyone saying life is over now that your no longer a kid.

I got a HUGE datapoint for feminist and any one who wants to make older sexual men feel "bad". 15 of the TOP porn stars are from 45-65, actually the most recognized names are in this age group. And were not talking about just some "fat" Ron Jeremy's.

Sex keeps you young and as long as you stay fvcking on chicks who desire you your junk will work.

 

[christie]

I got a HUGE datapoint for feminist and any one who wants to make older sexual men feel "bad". 15 of the TOP porn stars are from 45-65, actually the most recognized names are in this age group. And were not talking about just some "fat" Ron Jeremy's.

Sex keeps you young and as long as you stay fvcking on chicks who desire you your junk will work.

Yes, you have a list of mature male stars in cola's pic/ improvement thread.

 

[KindredSpiritzz]

the years between 30 & 40 go fast so make the most of your time. This is the area of life where you start piling up regrets for later in life so choose wisely in the roads you take along your journey.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yes, you have a list of mature male stars in cola's pic/ improvement thread.

Exactly most of the porn superstars are in that range.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

the years between 30 & 40 go fast so make the most of your time. This is the are of life where you start piling up regrets for later in life so choose wisely in the roads you take along your journey.

Spend time where your cherished and desires.

 

[christie]

Exactly most of the porn superstars are in that range.

I have to admit, when I was younger I thought this age range of men weren't as successful.

Not sure why I was so ageist.
My word, if my archetype approached me and was older I would say yes and not discriminate.

I will share when I get my next boyfriend on the board here before signing off.
If anything, I feel ageist the other way now because I don't like the domineering 'cougar' category that puts me into.
Plus from what I've learned on sosuave, I'm more valuable to an older man always more open to be loyal instead of a younger one who's just looking for transactional relationship.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I have to admit, when I was younger I thought this age range of men weren't as successful.

Not sure why I was so ageist.
My word, if my archetype approached me and was older I would say yes and not discriminate.

I will share when I get my next boyfriend on the board here before signing off.
If anything, I feel ageist the other way now because I don't like the domineering 'cougar' category that puts me into.
Plus from what I've learned on sosuave, I'm more valuable to an older man always more open to be loyal instead of a younger one who's just looking for transactional relationship.

If you as a woman did go "older", he should be sexy and attractive to you. If it turns you on then it's good to go.

 

[christie]

If you as a woman did go "older", he should be sexy and attractive to you. If it turns you on then it's good to go.

I told you/wrote here that I tried a date from OLD last March 2020? He was cool to meet me same day instead of endless chatting, to walk around the big park in the cold weather. Bigframed guy but not muscular. Cataracts and I'm pretty sure he took almost 20 years off his age on the profile, all older pics from when he lived in Barbados.
Ok. Still. He showed up. Was enthusiastic and positive, excellent courtesy so I decide to go on the walk anyways. (about an hour to go around the park)
At one point we politely, maturely talked(not crudely)about how important 'fit' is genitally speaking in a relationship. (I can't fail chit tests like that. I can speak on any subject to qualify for guys)

We sat on a bench close and after the walk I complied by getting in his car to get a small hot chocolate and went driving across city to see his old employer and to see a popular hiking place as if planning another date.

So I really tried to manufacture desire for this guy, I really tried by accepting kino and trying to be more intimate sitting closer on the bench and in his car driving and chatting and joking.

Its the first time I've ever been on a date with someone more than 1 year older than me. I'm going to guesstimate he was early to mid 70's

I have thought and thought and thought about why I couldn't muster up a sexual spark and I've determined it was NOT because of his age. He walked with military posture and easy languid movements of an athlete.

It was simply that he wasn't muscular, mrgoodstuff!

That 'fine piece of steak' raw hunger that I heard in a youtube lady's voice kind of feeling just wasn't there.
He knew it too. His facial expression was so sad when we returned to the park parking lot where my vehicle was.

My word, I'm so glad I tried by spending time with him on a date I may have never tried before. Yes he tricked me, but I'm glad I had the experience.
I'm willing to try again with an older man on a date but I don't know how I can fake it if I don't see bursting muscles, that glowing skin and bright eyes that comes with lifting. That thrown aura of testosterone that makes other people move out of their way automatically. That feeling I get just being in that protective bubble of masculinity. Its unreal how much I miss this and crave this.

I'm literally getting weakkneed thinking about it. Its deeper than carnal lust, it feels like survival and life force.
This isn't just a fetish mrgoodstuff.
My word.

Maybe I should have took my shot and took the risk and told him this.
But I didn't know then that was what was missing. Anyways, a guy probably wouldn't appreciate a girl from a date saying "If only you started lifting weights, I would probably feel the spark to sleep with you"

Its not until in this past year of constant meditation on what do I want, that my sorting computer of a brain has finally crossexamined and compared and zeroed in on the memories of when I felt most attracted and the final form is the muscular archetype as my type. It just exudes health and safety and longevity. Flips a switch in me.

The first muscular guy I ever date will probably take whatever he wants of me. I will probably struggle to remember all of the lessons I learned here. Lol. Thank God I'm a woman. I won't have to remember everything from this forum except for the simple facts of never letting my selfimprovements and femininity slip again.
I feel positive I can get this. It gives me a burst of energy every time I think I can be successful in improving even more to get this type of guy and to keep this type of guy.
Knowing his chronological age will be superfluous.

 

[Mike32ct]

As a late bloomer who didn’t do too well in my 20s, my early 30s were awesome.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I told you/wrote here that I tried a date from OLD last March 2020? He was cool to meet me same day instead of endless chatting, to walk around the big park in the cold weather. Bigframed guy but not muscular. Cataracts and I'm pretty sure he took almost 20 years off his age on the profile, all older pics from when he lived in Barbados.
Ok. Still. He showed up. Was enthusiastic and positive, excellent courtesy so I decide to go on the walk anyways. (about an hour to go around the park)
At one point we politely, maturely talked(not crudely)about how important 'fit' is genitally speaking in a relationship. (I can't fail chit tests like that. I can speak on any subject to qualify for guys)

We sat on a bench close and after the walk I complied by getting in his car to get a small hot chocolate and went driving across city to see his old employer and to see a popular hiking place as if planning another date.

So I really tried to manufacture desire for this guy, I really tried by accepting kino and trying to be more intimate sitting closer on the bench and in his car driving and chatting and joking.

Its the first time I've ever been on a date with someone more than 1 year older than me. I'm going to guesstimate he was early to mid 70's

I have thought and thought and thought about why I couldn't muster up a sexual spark and I've determined it was NOT because of his age. He walked with military posture and easy languid movements of an athlete.

It was simply that he wasn't muscular, mrgoodstuff!

That 'fine piece of steak' raw hunger that I heard in a youtube lady's voice kind of feeling just wasn't there.
He knew it too. His facial expression was so sad when we returned to the park parking lot where my vehicle was.

My word, I'm so glad I tried by spending time with him on a date I may have never tried before. Yes he tricked me, but I'm glad I had the experience.
I'm willing to try again with an older man on a date but I don't know how I can fake it if I don't see bursting muscles, that glowing skin and bright eyes that comes with lifting. That thrown aura of testosterone that makes other people move out of their way automatically. That feeling I get just being in that protective bubble of masculinity. Its unreal how much I miss this and crave this.

I'm literally getting weakkneed thinking about it. Its deeper than carnal lust, it feels like survival and life force.
This isn't just a fetish mrgoodstuff.
My word.

Maybe I should have took my shot and took the risk and told him this.
But I didn't know then that was what was missing. Anyways, a guy probably wouldn't appreciate a girl from a date saying "If only you started lifting weights, I would probably feel the spark to sleep with you"

Its not until in this past year of constant meditation on what do I want, that my sorting computer of a brain has finally crossexamined and compared and zeroed in on the memories of when I felt most attracted and the final form is the muscular archetype as my type. It just exudes health and safety and longevity. Flips a switch in me.

The first muscular guy I ever date will probably take whatever he wants of me. I will probably struggle to remember all of the lessons I learned here. Lol. Thank God I'm a woman. I won't have to remember everything from this forum except for the simple facts of never letting my selfimprovements and femininity slip again.
I feel positive I can get this. It gives me a burst of energy every time I think I can be successful in improving even more to get this type of guy and to keep this type of guy.
Knowing his chronological age will be superfluous.

It's gonna be hard to have physical attraction with 20+ years age gap outside of some oddball scenarios where they are still fine as fvck.

 

[jimwho]

I'm literally getting weakkneed thinking about it. Its deeper than carnal lust, it feels like survival and life force.

Well Fvq, I'm going to start working out again. I'll call you in a couple months when i'm all knar.

 

[Stephen89]

Best of luck my friend.

 

[Blacksheep]

I got a HUGE datapoint for feminist and any one who wants to make older sexual men feel "bad". 15 of the TOP porn stars are from 45-65, actually the most recognized names are in this age group. And were not talking about just some "fat" Ron Jeremy's.

Sex keeps you young and as long as you stay fvcking on chicks who desire you your junk will work.

I usually don't trust anyone who use his/her words to offend other people. Most of times its never about the one being offended but rather, the one who is offending. Biggest lesson my father taught me (not on a positive way, but made me learn that).