"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Getting in the sexual mood

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I was at a party and decided to get close to a girl who was smoking. She seemed really cool with me, but I could only get to making out with her. I didn't know how to go from there. Any tips the next time I kiss close with a woman to make it more sexual?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"Game doesn't get you laid, Logistics gets you laid"- Johnny Wolf

You're at a party, which I'm assuming isn't at your place; I'm going to assume you're at a club, personally, I'm not a big fan of bathroom pulls. Anyway, you need to figure out how to get her to a seduction location, say your place or her place. You need some place private, otherwise it's not going to go anywhere.

Go back to your situation, I guarantee you if you and here were back at her place or your place, escalating would have been much easier.

In the E (extraction) part of the ABC's model is the next step you should have taken, you guys had already made out and you should have gotten her out of there. You need some sort of extraction excuse, say "a party back at your place", a reason to get her back to your pad.

-Kevin
 
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