"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Getting in the sexual mood

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I was at a party and decided to get close to a girl who was smoking. She seemed really cool with me, but I could only get to making out with her. I didn't know how to go from there. Any tips the next time I kiss close with a woman to make it more sexual?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"Game doesn't get you laid, Logistics gets you laid"- Johnny Wolf

You're at a party, which I'm assuming isn't at your place; I'm going to assume you're at a club, personally, I'm not a big fan of bathroom pulls. Anyway, you need to figure out how to get her to a seduction location, say your place or her place. You need some place private, otherwise it's not going to go anywhere.

Go back to your situation, I guarantee you if you and here were back at her place or your place, escalating would have been much easier.

In the E (extraction) part of the ABC's model is the next step you should have taken, you guys had already made out and you should have gotten her out of there. You need some sort of extraction excuse, say "a party back at your place", a reason to get her back to your pad.

-Kevin
 
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