"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Getting in the sexual mood

Vanilla

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I was at a party and decided to get close to a girl who was smoking. She seemed really cool with me, but I could only get to making out with her. I didn't know how to go from there. Any tips the next time I kiss close with a woman to make it more sexual?
 

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Kevin Feng

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"Game doesn't get you laid, Logistics gets you laid"- Johnny Wolf

You're at a party, which I'm assuming isn't at your place; I'm going to assume you're at a club, personally, I'm not a big fan of bathroom pulls. Anyway, you need to figure out how to get her to a seduction location, say your place or her place. You need some place private, otherwise it's not going to go anywhere.

Go back to your situation, I guarantee you if you and here were back at her place or your place, escalating would have been much easier.

In the E (extraction) part of the ABC's model is the next step you should have taken, you guys had already made out and you should have gotten her out of there. You need some sort of extraction excuse, say "a party back at your place", a reason to get her back to your pad.

-Kevin
 
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