"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Getting In Shape for Summer

CORVETTE06

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I started in February to get in shape for the summer. I don't want to get super-huge, but i want to look muscular where people would notice that im 'pretty big' and work out. (im NOT fat but i have some 'spare tires' i'd like to get rid of, so i want to lose fat and gain muscle)

right now i weight 166.5 pounds

i want to have a gi-joe look

please tell me if im doing anything wrong

my workouts are broken up into 3 days....
i work out 4 times a week, and run on the elliptical for 20 minutes three times a week.

i try to cut out crap food. i try and eat high protein foods. and im taking creatine (1 scoop only when i work out)..and if i dont eat high protein foods, i have a egg-protein shake or a 'pure-protein' bar. i cant drink whey shakes cuz i crap them out.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Warboss Alex

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Hm. You should be able to look good by July/August IF you stick dilligently to your goals, and for that you need a strict eating plan, workout routine and cardio schedule. You can't do something like this instinctively unless you're really good at gauging how your body works..

Post up:
Your entire workout routine (exercises, sets etc)
Cardio schedule
Typical day's diet (be honest)

And we'll take it from there.
 

Warboss Alex

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either is fine.

I prefer people posting stuff in the open so that a) other members can chime in and b) more people can see the advice given
 
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