"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Getting In Shape for Summer

CORVETTE06

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I started in February to get in shape for the summer. I don't want to get super-huge, but i want to look muscular where people would notice that im 'pretty big' and work out. (im NOT fat but i have some 'spare tires' i'd like to get rid of, so i want to lose fat and gain muscle)

right now i weight 166.5 pounds

i want to have a gi-joe look

please tell me if im doing anything wrong

my workouts are broken up into 3 days....
i work out 4 times a week, and run on the elliptical for 20 minutes three times a week.

i try to cut out crap food. i try and eat high protein foods. and im taking creatine (1 scoop only when i work out)..and if i dont eat high protein foods, i have a egg-protein shake or a 'pure-protein' bar. i cant drink whey shakes cuz i crap them out.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Warboss Alex

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Hm. You should be able to look good by July/August IF you stick dilligently to your goals, and for that you need a strict eating plan, workout routine and cardio schedule. You can't do something like this instinctively unless you're really good at gauging how your body works..

Post up:
Your entire workout routine (exercises, sets etc)
Cardio schedule
Typical day's diet (be honest)

And we'll take it from there.
 

Warboss Alex

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either is fine.

I prefer people posting stuff in the open so that a) other members can chime in and b) more people can see the advice given
 
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