"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I was out in the mall with a girl of mine, she was helping me pick out some clothes. Anyways we're walking around and i happen to see this girl staring at me while we're walking.... and i mean she was just standing and STARRING like a deer in the headlights. I kinda ignored it b/c i didn't realize who she was and we kept on walking.

But 5 min later i realized that i knew her back in highschool. I looked her up in my highschool yearbook, sure enough i remember her now. I feel like a jackass for not saying hi, but also wouldn't mind hitting it.

Found her on myspace, Any ideas for a message?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What angle should i play? I don't have good experience with these things...anyone?
 

The Sperminator

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Just be like hey it's so and so remember me? I saw you in the mall a few days ago. I didn't recognize you at first because you look so much different. I kept on telling myself where do I know her from, as soon as I realized it was you it was too late to say hi lol. So how have you been blah blah blah. Well thats what I would say at least.
 

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"Hey I thought I recognised that cheeky little face. How's it hanging?"

Light bait or you'll scare her away.
 

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Thanx for the replies. I'll send her a one or two liner. Nighthawks right, i don't wanna come on too heavy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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