"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Getting in contact with old friend

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I was out in the mall with a girl of mine, she was helping me pick out some clothes. Anyways we're walking around and i happen to see this girl staring at me while we're walking.... and i mean she was just standing and STARRING like a deer in the headlights. I kinda ignored it b/c i didn't realize who she was and we kept on walking.

But 5 min later i realized that i knew her back in highschool. I looked her up in my highschool yearbook, sure enough i remember her now. I feel like a jackass for not saying hi, but also wouldn't mind hitting it.

Found her on myspace, Any ideas for a message?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What angle should i play? I don't have good experience with these things...anyone?
 

The Sperminator

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Just be like hey it's so and so remember me? I saw you in the mall a few days ago. I didn't recognize you at first because you look so much different. I kept on telling myself where do I know her from, as soon as I realized it was you it was too late to say hi lol. So how have you been blah blah blah. Well thats what I would say at least.
 

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"Hey I thought I recognised that cheeky little face. How's it hanging?"

Light bait or you'll scare her away.
 

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Thanx for the replies. I'll send her a one or two liner. Nighthawks right, i don't wanna come on too heavy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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