"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheNewGuy

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What are your guys opinions on asking a girls friends for help on getting together with the girl?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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oakraiderz2

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Youre a big boy, you can do it yourself.
 

GaryUranga

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telling the friend to hook you up usually mean showing direct interest, her friend is obviously gonna tell her, if shes already attracted to you it might be good if you play it cool
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Distant Light

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Puts it in a dating frame and you won't get any for awhile. I'd say its a rather bad idea. Go approach for yourself and convey your personality.
 

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If you're too shy to make an approach, get the girl's friends to hang out with you and bring her along.

"Hooking people up" is plain retarded. I refuse to do it for my friends, and I refuse to ask people to do it for me. It's basically saying "I'm too scared to spit game by myself, so I'm using your friend." I only use friends for introductions, then it's my game.
 

ryannath

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Get over it and do it yourself. So, if you do get with her alone are friends gonna have to be there to hold your hand while you fvck her? Don't answer that, I am just playin with that question.
 

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If her friends are hot, i'd let them hold more than just my hand while we bang lol
 
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