Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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TheNewGuy

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What are your guys opinions on asking a girls friends for help on getting together with the girl?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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oakraiderz2

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Youre a big boy, you can do it yourself.
 

GaryUranga

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telling the friend to hook you up usually mean showing direct interest, her friend is obviously gonna tell her, if shes already attracted to you it might be good if you play it cool
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Distant Light

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Puts it in a dating frame and you won't get any for awhile. I'd say its a rather bad idea. Go approach for yourself and convey your personality.
 

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If you're too shy to make an approach, get the girl's friends to hang out with you and bring her along.

"Hooking people up" is plain retarded. I refuse to do it for my friends, and I refuse to ask people to do it for me. It's basically saying "I'm too scared to spit game by myself, so I'm using your friend." I only use friends for introductions, then it's my game.
 

ryannath

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Get over it and do it yourself. So, if you do get with her alone are friends gonna have to be there to hold your hand while you fvck her? Don't answer that, I am just playin with that question.
 

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If her friends are hot, i'd let them hold more than just my hand while we bang lol
 
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