"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm having some trouble with the last stages of pickup. I can build interest, attraction etc. I can semi-isolate. But the hardest part is prying a broad away from her friends and getting her away from the party to my place. It is a little far from town but I do have wheels.

Does anyone have any useful tips for this stage? What are some good ways you can coax her to come back to your crib?
 

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Grab a bit... come watch my cat the puny do a back flip.
 
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Lexington said:
What are some good ways you can coax her to come back to your crib?
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#1: By Changing Your Attitude

Its sounds like you're trying to put a prybar between her and whereever she is currently.

Some good lines to memorize:
*Lets get out of here
*Grab hand and start walking
*I want to show you my stamp collection
*I have this really neat screen saver on my computer. I'll show you.

Of course there will be times that she's just not going to leave. #close and come back around for round 2 later.
 
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Might have something to do with the fact that you want to take them out to the middle of nowhere late at night...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Trying to get a SNL (same night lay) is very difficult. It should be easier to get her to your place when you're on a day 2.
 
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I use

"hey wanna come to a big gay al party back at my place?"
 
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