Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Getting her to your pad

Lexington

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I'm having some trouble with the last stages of pickup. I can build interest, attraction etc. I can semi-isolate. But the hardest part is prying a broad away from her friends and getting her away from the party to my place. It is a little far from town but I do have wheels.

Does anyone have any useful tips for this stage? What are some good ways you can coax her to come back to your crib?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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amoka

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Grab a bit... come watch my cat the puny do a back flip.
 

scrouds

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Lexington said:
What are some good ways you can coax her to come back to your crib?
#1: By Changing Your Attitude

Its sounds like you're trying to put a prybar between her and whereever she is currently.

Some good lines to memorize:
*Lets get out of here
*Grab hand and start walking
*I want to show you my stamp collection
*I have this really neat screen saver on my computer. I'll show you.

Of course there will be times that she's just not going to leave. #close and come back around for round 2 later.
 

mothballs

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Might have something to do with the fact that you want to take them out to the middle of nowhere late at night...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Maxtro

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Trying to get a SNL (same night lay) is very difficult. It should be easier to get her to your place when you're on a day 2.
 

trickz

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I use

"hey wanna come to a big gay al party back at my place?"
 
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