"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Getting her to sit on your lap...

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You've just turned 14 and you deadlift 250?

Can someone open a window? Something smells of bull****.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by DJBen
You've just turned 14 and you deadlift 250?

Can someone open a window? Something smells of bull****.
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hah its not too hard to do that...when i was 14 i bet you i could have gotten 250 up..the first time i EVER deadlifted i racked up 350....then i had to take 3 months off for track...and im deadlifting again..creepin up on 400..150lbs...on a good day...but i failed to see why he even put that up there...great..so u can lift 250lbs off the ground...well too bad when ur sitting..and a girl sits on ur lap..that has NOTHING to do with pickin sh*t off the ground..unless shes THAT fat and u have to get urself off the ground..which in that case...run...
 
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I call bull**** because how much he deadlifts has nothing at all to do with why some girl wont sit on his lap. I just cant make any sort of logical connection anywhere to that and what he wants to achieve with the girl.

I say just chill out. If its an excuse, NEXT!
 
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