"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Getting Head

knglerxt

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I'm just curious. What percentage of the girls you go out with give head? Do the ones that do have to be persuaded, or do they just assume that's what you want them to do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ryannath

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100% of the ones I have been with give head. It's pretty much the first thing they do, and it's their idea to give it. It's not like you have to ask for it. They just start doing it. Most love giving it. It makes them feel good or something.
 

PectoralisMajor

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All the girls apart from the two I've dated in Scotland have given head voluntarily. Maybe its something about girls in Scotland - unlikely.

My currenty gf is an odd one. She prity talented in the bed room, but doesnt like giving head, and has only a couple of times ( in 8 months). Without forcing the issue or talking to her maturely about it, there doesnt seem much ya can do about it.

Fortunately she;s horny in the bedroom so these things make up for it a little
 

Fuglydude

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Only one girl i've been w/ didn't give head...but she didn't wanna be pleasured orally either, so i guess its "fair".

My current gf is very giving in that department. ;-)
 

mrRuckus

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They usually will do it willingly and without prompting at first and then stop doing it once you've been with them a while. It's a ploy to get you to stay around at first.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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