Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Getting Head

knglerxt

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I'm just curious. What percentage of the girls you go out with give head? Do the ones that do have to be persuaded, or do they just assume that's what you want them to do?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ryannath

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100% of the ones I have been with give head. It's pretty much the first thing they do, and it's their idea to give it. It's not like you have to ask for it. They just start doing it. Most love giving it. It makes them feel good or something.
 

PectoralisMajor

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All the girls apart from the two I've dated in Scotland have given head voluntarily. Maybe its something about girls in Scotland - unlikely.

My currenty gf is an odd one. She prity talented in the bed room, but doesnt like giving head, and has only a couple of times ( in 8 months). Without forcing the issue or talking to her maturely about it, there doesnt seem much ya can do about it.

Fortunately she;s horny in the bedroom so these things make up for it a little
 

Fuglydude

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Only one girl i've been w/ didn't give head...but she didn't wanna be pleasured orally either, so i guess its "fair".

My current gf is very giving in that department. ;-)
 

mrRuckus

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They usually will do it willingly and without prompting at first and then stop doing it once you've been with them a while. It's a ploy to get you to stay around at first.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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