“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Getting Hated

aBAzLLnA

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yesterday night i was online and a girl instant messaged me saying...

"in the beginning of the year i thought u were a really cool kid, but recently youve been an *******, and its really unbecoming..."

so im thinking, "so this chick cant stand the new me huh? and why should i care what you think!"

im posting this to see what you guys think of this IM...since im getting hated i must be doing something right! :D

payce,
wu
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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well, i had the same thing happen to me except this girl was telling everyone but me...she actually had a major crush on me, and when i changed, more and more girls started liking me, so she got really jealous of any girl i talked to and she got mad cause she felt like she had no more chance with me.. it wasnt that i was a worse person, it was the fact that i was a really nice guy and kinda shy and goofy, and this girl liked me and knew that there really wasnt any competition for me, well i changed and the whole competition thing changed as well. so she got mad... i just ignored her and let her cool off and she is nice to me again now. i dont think its you, i think its the person who AIMed you, but you might just want to take a look at your self and make sure you arent over doing it..
 

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see, thats the thing, i dont sh!t on people and it kinda surprised me hearing this from a girl...and i make sure not to overdo anything cuz that only leads to problems.

payce,
wu
 

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same with me.... do you think she might have a crush on you? i was shocked at first too when my friend told me that this girl was saying all this stuff about me.
 

aBAzLLnA

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well i dont even know who it was who said it because the girl was using someone elses sn...
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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lol, that got to be annoying for you, well, i bet its a girl who had a crush on you, just like my situation. it just sound s to similar...just dont wory about it. i dont think it will become a problem.
 

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Hearing those stories from both aBAzLLnA and bcdefxyz2000 has got me thinking about my ex-girlfriend (a real bytch after we broke it off).

There is something wrong with (some) girls these days!
 
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