So the other day I realized that I've been messaging girls first a lot lately, and I thought... they should be messaging me first! So i stopped texting/messaging women all together, to avoid the needy/clingy vibe. As you might guess.. I haven't been talking to many women lately. What are some ways to build up your "reputation" (for lack of a better word) and get girls to initiate conversation with YOU. By the way I'm talking about girls you have talked to before. But some advice on getting a girl to text you after you've given her your number would be helpful as well.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Getting girls to initiate conversation?
- Thread starter Gamemasta
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