"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Getting girls to initiate conversation?

Gamemasta

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So the other day I realized that I've been messaging girls first a lot lately, and I thought... they should be messaging me first! So i stopped texting/messaging women all together, to avoid the needy/clingy vibe. As you might guess.. I haven't been talking to many women lately. What are some ways to build up your "reputation" (for lack of a better word) and get girls to initiate conversation with YOU. By the way I'm talking about girls you have talked to before. But some advice on getting a girl to text you after you've given her your number would be helpful as well.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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AH909

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Theres 3 main reasons why girls dont text you back. 1: shes afraid you dont like her. You have to realize girls are 10x afraid of rejection than guys thus they wont text you first. 2: shes been placed so high on her pedestal by afcs that she firmly believes a guy should text first(which we should) and 3: she thinks your annoying/creepy. If that happens say **** it and move on. If she does text you first your chances are pretty good from my experiences. So to sum it up be a man and text first.
 

Bwilled

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This is what i needed to hear. . . but how can i change the topic of our conversation from regular to playful/flirty
 

AlexLefty

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Bwilled said:
This is what i needed to hear. . . but how can i change the topic of our conversation from regular to playful/flirty
The majority of flirty behavior comes from physical ques and being playful. Your smile, eye contact, tone, and body language are all essential to being flirty. Basically, you need to Kino more: random playful hugging, tackling, tickling, flicking, wet willies, and playful teasing etc.
 
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