"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Getting Girls Isn't My Problem...

ManUnited01

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Apologies if this is in the wrong forum...

I don't mean to come off as arrogant but getting women for me is easy. I have the mindset that girls are a dime a dozen and that I do not need a girl in my life to be happy. Right now, I have a top runway model from my town as my girlfriend who adores me.

Unfortunately, it's other facets in my life where I feel inadequate. In my job, playing sports or my lifestyle, I always want more. Perhaps this ambition is what is turning girls on. I dunno...I just never seem to feel self-worth in these areas of my life.

Any advice?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sir Psycho Sexy

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Ambition is extremely attractive to women....

Not sure what advice your looking for though
 

Ease

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You are definitely a super-duper guy.
 

Uberguy

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It's pretty simple: look at the people who have the skills/traits you desire, figure out how they acquired those skills, and then emulate them. Want to improve your job? Get an MBA. Want to play in the NBA? Shoot hoops for 3 hours/day everyday. Want to run a marathon? Then run.

Practice leads to Being.
 

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If you want to be better at something, work at it. Go get it. Take initiative cuz nobody's gonna spoonfeed you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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