"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Getting Girls Isn't My Problem...

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Apologies if this is in the wrong forum...

I don't mean to come off as arrogant but getting women for me is easy. I have the mindset that girls are a dime a dozen and that I do not need a girl in my life to be happy. Right now, I have a top runway model from my town as my girlfriend who adores me.

Unfortunately, it's other facets in my life where I feel inadequate. In my job, playing sports or my lifestyle, I always want more. Perhaps this ambition is what is turning girls on. I dunno...I just never seem to feel self-worth in these areas of my life.

Any advice?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ambition is extremely attractive to women....

Not sure what advice your looking for though
 
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You are definitely a super-duper guy.
 
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It's pretty simple: look at the people who have the skills/traits you desire, figure out how they acquired those skills, and then emulate them. Want to improve your job? Get an MBA. Want to play in the NBA? Shoot hoops for 3 hours/day everyday. Want to run a marathon? Then run.

Practice leads to Being.
 
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If you want to be better at something, work at it. Go get it. Take initiative cuz nobody's gonna spoonfeed you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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