"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Getting girls is becoming boring?

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I'm in college and my weekends evolve around hanging with my friends during the day/early night and then going after girls at night..

This is fun, and pretty easy to do in college, but it is kind of getting old that at least 2 nights of every week are dedicated solely to getting *****.

Its fun, I love sex, but sometimes I'm thinking that it's too monotonous doing the same thing over and over. And the other thing is that I feel like I do this a lot solely for validation, to show that I CAN get these girls, that i'm a man or whatever when in reality I could be doing other more productive things.

Maybe i'm just hungover right now so i'm being too pessimistic haha

Has anyone felt this way, and if so what do you I should do to get over this?

*EDIT* I'm not saying that I have too much sex, its still a big challenge to get girls into bed & its not like every time i go out i will be having sex with a girl. It's just the idea that getting a girl into bed is what I NEED to do on fri and sat is what's annoying. Girls are dictating how I judge myself and i don't like it.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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kindasuave said:
I'm in college and my weekends evolve around hanging with my friends during the day/early night and then going after girls at night..

This is fun, and pretty easy to do in college, but it is kind of getting old that at least 2 nights of every week are dedicated solely to getting *****.

Its fun, I love sex, but sometimes I'm thinking that it's too monotonous doing the same thing over and over. And the other thing is that I feel like I do this a lot solely for validation, to show that I CAN get these girls, that i'm a man or whatever when in reality I could be doing other more productive things.

Maybe i'm just hungover right now so i'm being too pessimistic haha

Has anyone felt this way, and if so what do you I should do to get over this?
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Look at what I highlighted in Bold. Be thankful that you've realized THAT at such a young age. NOW, life begins my friend.

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