"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Getting girls is becoming boring?

kindasuave

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I'm in college and my weekends evolve around hanging with my friends during the day/early night and then going after girls at night..

This is fun, and pretty easy to do in college, but it is kind of getting old that at least 2 nights of every week are dedicated solely to getting *****.

Its fun, I love sex, but sometimes I'm thinking that it's too monotonous doing the same thing over and over. And the other thing is that I feel like I do this a lot solely for validation, to show that I CAN get these girls, that i'm a man or whatever when in reality I could be doing other more productive things.

Maybe i'm just hungover right now so i'm being too pessimistic haha

Has anyone felt this way, and if so what do you I should do to get over this?

*EDIT* I'm not saying that I have too much sex, its still a big challenge to get girls into bed & its not like every time i go out i will be having sex with a girl. It's just the idea that getting a girl into bed is what I NEED to do on fri and sat is what's annoying. Girls are dictating how I judge myself and i don't like it.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

btownbuck2012

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kindasuave said:
I'm in college and my weekends evolve around hanging with my friends during the day/early night and then going after girls at night..

This is fun, and pretty easy to do in college, but it is kind of getting old that at least 2 nights of every week are dedicated solely to getting *****.

Its fun, I love sex, but sometimes I'm thinking that it's too monotonous doing the same thing over and over. And the other thing is that I feel like I do this a lot solely for validation, to show that I CAN get these girls, that i'm a man or whatever when in reality I could be doing other more productive things.

Maybe i'm just hungover right now so i'm being too pessimistic haha

Has anyone felt this way, and if so what do you I should do to get over this?

Look at what I highlighted in Bold. Be thankful that you've realized THAT at such a young age. NOW, life begins my friend.

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