"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sparky1981

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This is something I would like a bit of help with. I work for large factory. Well not that large. About 200 people there. I've noticed this girl not from my department that I would love to get. I got a couple of probs. First of all our department just don't cross so i don't really get a chance to say hi or how you doing anytime. Secondly I don't know if its wise to be going after a chick at work but damn this one is hot. Any advice?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DinoCassanova

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If your departments don't cross then you're not having to work with her on a daily basis really anyway. It's not as though you're sitting next to her in an office space, you know? So you have nothing to lose and possiblya lot to gain. I would say you should definitely go meet her and see what she's all about. ~Dino
 

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Its better about the department thing. If it goes sour you dont see her.
Cant you talk to her in the canteen (if you got one) or maybe before work or after (if you enter and exit the same way)
 

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I don't have any excuse to get my ass over to her department in the first place. She also may have the ability to fire my ass if she don't like it. That why I have a problem I'm assembly shes office.
 

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Just be wise enough to keep work & personal life seperate, notice if things begin to go south between you two ahead of time. I fooled around with my manager's daughter and a cashier that works there also, I ran a fine line and now have somewhat of a rep. among the employees. I ran the well dry at the work place and am now looking for another job in my spare time.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sparky1981

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Thats not something I have aprob with. I am just trying to figure out how to get ou two ass's in the sa,e place so that I can at least say hi and have an excuse to be there. I really don't have any work related reason to go after her
 
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