"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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This is something I would like a bit of help with. I work for large factory. Well not that large. About 200 people there. I've noticed this girl not from my department that I would love to get. I got a couple of probs. First of all our department just don't cross so i don't really get a chance to say hi or how you doing anytime. Secondly I don't know if its wise to be going after a chick at work but damn this one is hot. Any advice?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If your departments don't cross then you're not having to work with her on a daily basis really anyway. It's not as though you're sitting next to her in an office space, you know? So you have nothing to lose and possiblya lot to gain. I would say you should definitely go meet her and see what she's all about. ~Dino
 
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Its better about the department thing. If it goes sour you dont see her.
Cant you talk to her in the canteen (if you got one) or maybe before work or after (if you enter and exit the same way)
 
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I don't have any excuse to get my ass over to her department in the first place. She also may have the ability to fire my ass if she don't like it. That why I have a problem I'm assembly shes office.
 
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Just be wise enough to keep work & personal life seperate, notice if things begin to go south between you two ahead of time. I fooled around with my manager's daughter and a cashier that works there also, I ran a fine line and now have somewhat of a rep. among the employees. I ran the well dry at the work place and am now looking for another job in my spare time.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thats not something I have aprob with. I am just trying to figure out how to get ou two ass's in the sa,e place so that I can at least say hi and have an excuse to be there. I really don't have any work related reason to go after her
 
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