"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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turn out the lights and go slowly. make sure shes turned on. If she freaks out. KILL THE MOOD ENTIRELY. Blow out all the candles of lovemaking. Go check your ****in email or grab somethin to eat/drink. Go to the bathroom and jerk it out so you don't get blue balls. Don't touch her for the rest of the night. Act like shes just a friend. Go home after you eat everything in her fridge. (joking about that, but browse around for anything good before you leave)

next time she won't try **** like that. Let her know WHO is in control. Shes enjoying the fact that she can start/stop the most pleasurable part of the relationship. **** that. Grab the reigns man.
 

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Originally posted by TheManlyMan
turn out the lights and go slowly. make sure shes turned on. If she freaks out. KILL THE MOOD ENTIRELY. Blow out all the candles of lovemaking. Go check your ****in email or grab somethin to eat/drink. Go to the bathroom and jerk it out so you don't get blue balls. Don't touch her for the rest of the night. Act like shes just a friend. Go home after you eat everything in her fridge. (joking about that, but browse around for anything good before you leave)

next time she won't try **** like that. Let her know WHO is in control. Shes enjoying the fact that she can start/stop the most pleasurable part of the relationship. **** that. Grab the reigns man.
Haha, I've already done that to a degree. Last time I slept over we were making out and getting touchy feely like at 1 AM and then out of the sudden she goes "I'm sleepy" so I pulled back, went to the bathroom and then laid back down. After a while she started touching me again and headed for my crotch so I took her hand off and told her "Babe, you're sleepy, go to sleep" a couple of times. After like 5 min she asked if Iwas mad and I told her no I just want you to go to sleep now and she finally did.

Now that I think of it I always do this kind of stuff when she says or does something I dont like.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yeah good job bob.

haha had to say it... I'm guessing you're with her right now. So TELL US ASAP. I AM EATING POPCORN AND LOOKING AT THIS POST ALL DAY.
 

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Okay, so after the show we found out that her brother was coming over for the weekend and he just happen to not want to sleep in the living room so he wanted to sleep in my gfs sisters(they share a room) bed because she wasent there. Therefore she couldnt strip for me :down:

We waited a while so he would go to sleep while i was teasing her all along. She tried going for my crotch on many occasions which I grabbed her hand and put it somewhere else while telling her that her brother was in the room. After like half hour we went to the living room to "watch a movie";) at 1 AM. I knew nothing was really gonna happen cuz her mom or someone might come out if they heard noise and stuff. Even though she knew someone might hear us I started to move my hand up her inner thigh untill I reached the sweet spot and she was wearing shorts so it was fairly easy to start fingering her right there. She was pretty loud for a while and I told her to calm down lol Then we pretty much kissed some more and then went back to the bedroom and went to sleep.


The next day we were left alone in the house with her brother only and we went to her room to take a "nap". When I got into the room she was laying down facing the wall so I layed down next to her and hugged her. I started teasing her and she turned around and tried to grab my **** and i stopped her and told her to take her nap lol she said "NO!!!!!" and she attacked me :D she got on top of me and started kissing me and massing my sex. I took off her shorts and she had this nice green g string i was like ooooh lol yeah....So I felt up her ass for a while and then told her to take her nap again. She layed down facing away from me and conviniently placed her ass on my crotch. We put a cover over us just incase her brother might come in but we doubted it because he was playing video games and he gets really into them....She kept moving her ass up and down while i massaged her tits with one hand and carressed her ass with the other. She then said "look babe, my ass is rubbing against your ****" and i said "no its not, its rubbing against my pants haha" and she said whatever and started to unbutton my pants and took them off. She started to rub her ass on my **** again and my boxers started to get alittle tight...yeah...lol I started to whisper kinky thoughts into her ear. Then she asked "is my ass rubbing against your **** now?" I dont know what came through me but at that moment I just pulled down my boxers and put my **** on her ass. She was so surprised and started to massage my ****. I took her hand away and started rubbing my **** against her ass. I placed my **** in her crack and she started going up and down on it...her ass was so warm and it felt so good lol so then i took her g string off and we kept grinding for a while. I was wondering how far I could get so I whispered in her ear "baby.....kiss it" It took her a couple of seconds to realize what I had just said and then she turned around and kissed my chest and went down and surely enough kissed my ****. After another short while I whispered her to put it in her mouth...and she did i was like :woo: lol but she only did it for like 5 seconds...then i started to play with her sex. I fingered her first 1 finger and after a while 2...I could tell she liked it cause of the noises she made and the way she grinded her hips and moved them up closer to my hand. Somewhere in the middle of this she grabs my **** and starts giving me a hand job. It felt so good to just kick back and not have to do it yourself lol :D Couple of minutes passed and I whispered to her "baby....suck my ****"...she looked really surprised and then went ahead and took my member in her mouth. It was so relaxing lol it was great. She stopped after a while and gave me another one later. The second one was even better...liek she was getting the hang of it lol Later in the day I found she wanted me to *** in her mouth but i was all "what if she dosent like it or what if she thinks im weird" so yeah now i know for next time lol. After she was done i whispered to her ear "baby, i want to taste you" and she gave me the most innocent look I've ever seen and nodded her head in aproval. So I went ahead and went downtown on her...i thought she was gonna taste rather distastefull because what everyone says about the fish smell and all that crap...but she tasted so sweet, it was like candy lol i didnt want to stop and it didnt smell bad either, her smell was rather arousing me even more if thast even possible when u have a raging boner lol So yeah after i was done she grabbed my **** again and started rubbing it and we heard a noise and thought her bro was comming but he was in the bathroom next door and we decided it was too risky to go any further because there is no lock on her door lol


So yeah, didnt get laid(brother+no condom so i dont wanna risk nothing lol), but I had loads of fun =]
And i'm glad my gf dosent taste bad...im actually looking forward to the next time i get to eat her out lol
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Thats sooo true dude. At first I was like damn what if she thinks I'm small down there or something you know cause porno makes the average guy seem alittle small lol so yeah. After a while though I was like **** it and just decided to not think about anything and enjoy the moment. :D
 

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It's done and over with. You guys are going to have sex.

NICE STORY!!!

I liked how it was long because i was anticipating it.

Man.... that sounds like fun especially when it's in HS.

GO BOB!

P.S. you don't get the dancing men yet cuz you didn't get laid hahahaha. Good stuff though :). Make sure to post up in here when you bump uglies.
 

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OH yeah... one more thing.


Don't be afraid of size OR jizzing in her mouth.

Trust me it's the greatest thing watching them do it for the first time.

Just don't worry at all... Remember it was her taht was worried ;).
 

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When we bump uglies? lol

Hey hey now, my tool is pretty lol

Well yeah I figured not to worry about my size anyway it dosent fix anything so I'm like whatever about it...And yeah next time I'll jizz on her lol She wanted to but didnt tell me anything and I didnt want to make a mess...

It's kool how shes open to any sexual experience we can probably think of...like when I was rubbing my **** on her ass I accidently poked her butthole lol and she let out alittle moan and I was like o_O And I did it a couple of times more. She found that a turn on and told me that she could go out and get a condom(liquor store right across the street from her place) in a couple of min if I wanted to try anal...but they dont sell lube there so I was like nah...Besides the first time I penetrate anything (besides her mouth lol) I want it to be ***** lol After that I'll give her w/e she wants lol. We've also talked about other positions, sex in public places like bathrooms, parking lots, and other places you know and she said she would be down to doing that. She dosent look like a girl who would do that kind of stuff. Its awesome, I have a lady in the street that I can take home and present her as my gf to my family(which I have already) and a freak in the bed. Woot! go me!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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